Bluntly, assertively refusing to comply with their demands Withers them, because in their warped emotional environment, one person in each twosome must always dominate, the other be dominated.
坦率地、有主张地拒绝服从他们的需求会让他们蔫了，因为在自恋者们的扭曲的情感环境中，只要有两个人的场合便会有一个人必定要去主宰、另一个就一定要被主宰。
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