Clearly and crisply state your complaint and its impact without getting defensive or aggressive.

明白清楚地说明你的抱怨及其影响，但不要采取辩驳或挑衅的方式。

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By nature, a man is suspicious, competitive, con - trolled, defensive and a loner who hides his emotional state to stay in control.

从本质上说，男人天性多疑、乐于竞争、有自控和自我保护意识，而且是一种喜欢孤独的动物，他努力克制自己，隐藏情感。

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Wait. He did light up the scoreboard against Golden State, one of the most porous defensive teams in the NBA.

等待。他轻了对金州计分，其中一个是NBA防守最多孔。

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They built forts and other defensive positions across the southern part of the state.

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