"The decision by the administration to back away from its missile defense commitment to the Czech Republic and Poland can only demonstrate to the rest of Europe that the United States is not prepared to stand behind its friends, that the United States views resetting its relationship with Russia more important than commitments made to close friends and allies, and that the administration is willing to let Russia have veto power over the disposition of our missile defense architecture,".

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That encourages cohesion and commitment, because it stems from a conscious decision to live in a country and abide by its rules.

ECONOMIST: Citizenship

Labour said it had "serious concerns" about the future of UK development policy at a time when there should be "unity and pride" over the decision to honour a commitment to spend 0.7% of national income on aid.

BBC: Farmers work in a field in Jalalabad, in Afghanistan

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