But the seemingly senseless misunderstandings that haunt our relationships can in part be explained by the different conversational rules by which men and women play.
但困扰两性关系的那些表面看来毫无意义的误解之所以存在，一部分原因可能在于男人和女人运用的交谈准则不同。
Only when people acquire a proper understanding of the conversational rules and strategies of both genders can they reduce the possibility of misunderstanding and conflicts in communication.
只有了解不同性别的交际规则和方略，才能在交际中尽可能减少误解和冲突。
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