Don't think too hard about unwritten rules like 'oh I went on a date so now I wont contact him for 3-4 days' If it went well contact the person the day after!

不要有一些不成文的规定，诸如“哦，我和他约会了，那么现在我将会3 4天不和他联系”如果约会顺利的话后天就和对方联系！

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Oh, my contact lenses!

噢，我的隐形眼镜！

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Oh my gosh! My cell phone didn't charge overnight! How can I contact my client later?

天啊！我的手机竟然一宿都没充上电！一会怎么联系客户呀！

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And then after I leave and I say, "Oh, I should have made eye contact with that person.

然后等我走远时，我想，”我应该和他有眼神接触的。

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