Do you think I'm being selfish by not letting her go?

你觉得我不让她走是自私吗？

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Stop being selfish.—You get what you put into a relationship.

不要太自私。 —在人际关系中投入多少你就会得到多少。

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What is the difference between being selfish, and of being self loving?

自私和自爱的区别又是什么呢？

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"As certain as she is sometimes and as absolutely gung-ho and young and courageous and brave, she is also willing to take a step back and go 'okay,I'm going to reconsider my options and how I'm treating everybody' because she acknowledges that she's being a little bit selfish.

VOA: standard.2010.07.07

In the aftermath of that fiasco, the team was accused of being selfish, disengaged and unafraid of punishment.

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Only a solid, foundation-rocking crisis forces us to stop being small and selfish.

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They are going to struggle but, if I am being a bit selfish, I hope they beat Australia because for New Zealand, that will be an easier route to the final.

BBC: Zinzan Brooke column