I don't know what I want anymore and have found it hard to know how to be in relationships, my job, making decisions, practicing a Course in Miracles, etc.
现在,我已经不知道自己究竟想“要”什么,也不再清楚如何与人相处,如何在工作中运作,如何做决定,和如何操练《奇迹课程》……。
Avoidant people want to be in relationships - because we're all programmed to get attached to other people - but something strange happens when they get close to a person.
逃避型的人想要亲密关系——因为我们都是要和他人之间存在联系的——但是当他们同人比较亲近时,经常会发生一些奇怪的事情。
Not just with your partner, your kids, your parents and siblings, try to be a loving, caring person in all your relationships.
不只和你的同伴、你的孩子、你的父母和兄弟姐妹,试着在你所有的人际关系中做一个有爱心、乐于助人的人。
If we have a high frequency, what about the wavelength, long or short? All right. Good. So we should always be able to keep these relationships in mind.
如果频率高,那波长是长还是短?,好,不错,我们要记住这些关系,类似的。
And that keeps people trapped in abusive relationships but-- And that's number one, ? but what else might be going on?
这些考虑使得人们被困在家庭暴力中-,这是第一个原因,还有什么原因呢?
I think, for example, in my own relationships,talks about my marriage, where I have to be vulnerable, I have to take a risk, where in fact I have to be willing to change my mind about my reading of the situation, based on my own fears and insecurities and anxieties.
举我自己的感情,我的婚姻作为例子吧,在婚姻中我会很脆弱,我必须冒险,而且,我必须愿意去改变自己,对当前状况的解读,不安全感和焦虑的影响而变得盲目。
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