Who doesn't tell the occasional white lie, to avoid social awkwardness or hurting someone's feelings?
这只是为了避免尴尬或是伤害某人的感情。
He says being laughed at causes a fear response in the victim. That fear leads the victim to avoid social situations.
他说,被笑导致受害者产生恐惧反应,这种恐惧会造成受害者避免社交场合。
Among his solutions: Control expectations, make decisions non-reversible, avoid social comparisons and 'learn to love constraints.'
他给出的忠告包括:控制期望、选择不可逆的决定、避免进行社会比较,还有学会喜爱约束。
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