Imagine you are pouring your heat out to someone and they are just busy on their phone, and if you ask for their attention you get the response—I can multitask.

想象一下，你正向某人吐露心声，而他们正忙着打电话，如果你要求他们注意，你会得到这样的答复——我可以一心多用。

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As a Confederate soldier observed, death "reigned with universal sway, " ruling homes and lives, demanding attention and response.

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Of course, you should pay attention to the response, or lack of response, you get.

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Pay attention to your unique response to stressors and stressful situations.

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