Why don't you ask her yourself?

你为什么不自己问她呢？

youdao

Sometimes can't blame her boyfriend is not careful, but ask yourself why you have emotions easily.

有时候不能埋怨男朋友不够细心，而是问自己为什么轻易就有情绪。

youdao

Her images make you ask what you might show about yourself and what you might try to hide.

VOA: special.2009.08.09

If you are asking someone to the prom, but you're not totally sure she is going to say yes, is it OK to ask someone in school to secretly get a little information from her, so you don't embarrass yourself and get rejected?

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