Carnegie would be right if arguments were fights, which is how we often think of them.

如果争论算打架的话，卡耐基的说法就是对的，而我们通常也是这么认为的。

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If you're a couple who never fights, either because of trust issues or because of the fear of revisiting arguments past, there are steps you can take to overcome that avoidance.

如果你们是一对从来不争执的夫妻，或许是因为信任问题，或许是因为不想再回顾以前的争论，这里有一些步骤来帮助你克服这些问题。

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We don't want to provoke any fights or arguments, and we don't want to rub salt in a competitor's wound.

我们不想挑起争斗或口角，我们也不想在竞争对手的伤口上撒盐。

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Mrs McKeown said there were arguments and fights between her husband and son as Stewart struggled to cope with his sister's death and the circumstances of it.

BBC: Rebecca McKeown

But he said neighbors have described a history of public arguments among Thomas and her children, and Jaxs Johnson was arrested after a pair of fights with his mother in April.

CNN: STORY HIGHLIGHTS