If the both sides can't control their emotion, and the quarrel do happens, I think there is no need to continue a "cold war".

如果双方都没能控制住情绪，争吵还是发生了，那么我认为还是不要再继续进行冷战了，因为这对双方都没有好处。

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My sister and I used to quarrel all the time.

我和妹妹过去老是吵架。

《牛津词典》

Many a brisk argument or an insulting quarrel breaks out as the weary queues push and shove each other to get on buses and tubes.

当疲惫的队伍推推搡搡挤上公共汽车或地铁时，许多刻薄的争论或侮辱性的争吵爆发了。

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The latest quarrel among Australia, New Zealand and Fiji is over a group of expatriate judges from Sri Lanka that Fiji wants to recruit.

VOA: standard.2009.11.04

Remember, the Iliad starts because of a quarrel and the quarrel emerges from the fact that the Greeks are busily being killed by a terrible plague that has struck them. They say, "We got to find out what's happening?"

记住,《伊利亚特》,是从一场争论中开始的,一场肆虐的瘟疫夺走了无数希腊人的生命,希腊人大为震惊,他们说,"到底发生了什么"

耶鲁公开课 - 古希腊历史简介课程节选

So what is at stake in this quarrel between Socrates and the poetic tradition ? that he alludes to?

那到底他所暗示,介于苏格拉底与诗学传统间的争论,关键点为何？

耶鲁公开课 - 政治哲学导论课程节选

Until now, apart from North Korea, most of the would-be little powder-kegs have for good reason a mixture of oil politics, the Muslim revival and the quarrel about Israel been located in the Middle East.

ECONOMIST: Weathering the storm

And then, you have the quarrel between Sudan and Chad, with the Sudanese accusing the Chadians of backing the Darfur rebels, and the Chadians accusing the Sudanese of supporting Chadian rebels, who are trying to overthrow the Chadian president.

NPR: Negotiations for Darfur Peace Extended in Nigeria

And yet the ongoing quarrel - the Malawian government is still accusing Madonna of lying about her charity work - strikes me as interesting and revealing.

BBC: Madonna, Malawi and the infamous attack