But what do you do when your spouse hurts you so deeply that you find a bitter root developing within, despite your every effort, and the fact that you know it can hurt more than it can help?

但是当伴侣将你伤害的很深，并且你找到了痛苦的内在根源，发现即使你再努力，事实却仍旧是带来的伤害多于帮助时你将怎么做？

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People know when they are not accepted in their entirety and it hurts.

当人们知道自己没有被全盘接受的时候，人们会很受伤。

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Hence, friends have become a fabric of our lives - which also explains why it hurts us so when a friendship is fraught with confusion, heartache and tears.

因此，朋友已成为生活中必不可少的一部分，这也是为什么若是朋友间充斥着猜疑、心痛和眼泪时，会伤害我们如此之深。

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"It is very distressing, because people come here for pleasure and when something like this happens it hurts everyone involved, " she said.

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"It is very distressing, because people come here for pleasure and when something like this happens it hurts everyone involved, " said Ms Herkes.

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That hurts somebody, and especially when it's coming from your spouse and in front of the kids.

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