To really know someone is to have loved and hated him in turn.

真正了解一个人，只有曾经爱过他，也恨过他。

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She only found the whole situation bitter, and hated him for it thoroughly.

她只是感到整个情况太令人愤慨，因此对他恨之入骨。

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It was a no-win situation. Either she pretended she hated Ned and felt awful or admitted she loved him and felt even worse!

这是一个只输无赢的情形。如果她假装讨厌内德，她会觉得痛苦；而如果她承认喜欢他，她会感觉更难受!

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"And so based on that moment, I wrote a song called 'Let him be first.' After all,he'll be the most hated and reviled man in all of England.

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People hated him and why was that?

人们都憎恨他,而这又是为什么呢

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He was always quoting something or other and we hated him for it, unless we were in the middle of a fire alarm, in which case we loved him like a brother.

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When Bangle started to put a fancy back end on the BMW 7 series and oversaw innovations that tapped into the emotional spirit of customers, brought in the Mini, and even brought femininity to the 3 series, petrol heads around the world hated him and even campaigned for BMW to sack him.

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The actual killing was done by fighters from the Congo along with Belgians- and with the almost certain connivance of the Belgian government who hated him even more than the American and the British.

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