No one is perfect, and while we are not advocating for settling for less than you desire, the notion of "perfection" is a self-sabotaging principal.

人无完人，我们并非鼓励人们降低择偶要求，“完美”这一概念就是自暴自弃的罪魁祸首。

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In his speech to the conference, delegate Julian Perfect said he was not advocating a return to corporal punishment.

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