First, accept reality.

首先，接受现实。

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It means you accept reality as it is, and people as they are, without expectations, without trying to force people into the containers you have for them, seeing things as they are.

那就意味着接受现实和人们原本的样子，不带期望，也不强迫人们进入你为之设定的期望模式，看事情本来的面目。

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You are more and more able to accept reality, not more and more realistic.

你越来越能接受现实，而不是越来越现实。

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But who pays for this failure to enter the 21st century and accept reality?

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Prices are prices, and if we're not willing to accept reality, investors in global markets will make sure we do anyway.

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