我想出了一种教会式拥抱的方法而且很奏效。当然，这样自由的触摸可能会让人们感到有些不自在或者奇怪。

I think of that as the church-hug approach and it can work, but it can also make people a bit uncomfortable and weirded out by the touchy-feely thing.

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这样的话一个女性可以很自在地告诉她的男伴，“你先开始”或者“现在轮到你了！”

Therefore a woman should feel free to tell her fella, "you first" or "Now your turn!"

youdao

她给我们的印象是很有耐心，很自在悠闲的，她真的是这样。

She gives us the impression that she is patient and easygoing and what's more, she really is.

youdao