你把这理解为一个信号,而且是一个礼貌的信号,说明他对你这个人感兴趣,而不只是对谈话的话题感兴趣。
You interpret this as a sign—a polite one—that he is interested in you as a person rather than just in the topic of conversation.
失去一份工作是痛苦的:你不会在心里哼着歌蹦蹦跳跳地去就业中心,为你能从这个慷慨的国家获得双倍收入而高兴。
Losing a job is hurting: you don't skip down to the job centre with a song in your heart, delighted at the prospect of doubling your income from the generous state.
而且你也应该要清楚地认识到,你是为你自己在做这个事情,为了你的心情更舒畅,为了你的生活更轻松。
You also want to make it clear to yourself that you are doing this for you — to make your heart freer and your life lighter.
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