罗德曼说，没有什么比告诉你的配偶他或她在某种情况下应该或不应该怎么想更居高临下、更贬低人了。

There's nothing more belittling or condescending than telling your spouse what he should or shouldn't be feeling in any given situation, Rodman said.

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当你遇到高傲的旅客用他们的经历来贬低你的时候，窍门就是别觉得自己低人一等。

The trick is to not feel subpar when a travel snob overshadows your story with one of their own.

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Now,I don't in any way want to belittle the importance of the pain and suffering that happen for the rest of us when somebody that we care about dies.

我不想对我们在乎的人过世时,我们所经历的伤痛进行贬低。

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