试图找到你的状况中好的一面，并把注意力放在这上面。
Try to find the one good thing about your situation and focus on that.
尽力找到你的男朋友则是你试图弄明白心理上“他在哪”的隐喻。
And trying to find your boyfriend is a metaphor for you trying to find out "where he's at" psychologically.
从来材，创造或试图卖什么，直到你找到一个现有利基市场第一。
Never build, create, or try to sell anything until you find an existing niche market first.
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