让我感到痛苦的是无法与有识之士交谈。

I felt starved of intelligent conversation.

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我们太思念尼斯了，远离她这么久着实让我感到痛苦！

We missed Nessie so much and it hurt to be away form her.

youdao

为了需求改变，我愿意做任何事，除了什么让我感到痛苦的事儿。

I'd like to do anything but something that makes me feel painful for a change.

youdao

I could run away from you. I could turn my head or I could blame you for causing me this misery.

我只要走开，或者不看你就行了,或者我可以怪你让我也感到痛苦。

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And the Freudian response is, "Your rejection of my ideas shows that they are distressing to you.

精神分析的支持者们会回答，“你对我观点的反对,说明这些观点让你感到痛苦。

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That could cause me pain but it doesn't mean I'm going to be nice to you.

这会让我也感到痛苦,但这不代表我就要对你好。

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