太多的赞美可以逐渐侵蚀自信，因为它会引起完成任务的压力，制造希望不断得到其他人认同的需要。

Too much praise can sap self-esteem because it can create pressure to perform and set up a continual need for approval from others.

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由于它对应着现实的社会区分逻辑，满足了人们社会身份认同和自我身份认同的需要，因此人和物构成了一个闭合的循环。

It reflects the differentiation logic of social reality and caters to the need of people's social status identity and self-status identity, people and objects forming a closed cycle.

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被人认同是件好事，但你需要相互矛盾的观点来挖掘真相。

It's nice to have people agree, but you need conflicting perspectives to dig out the truth.

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No,according to the personality theory, what personal identity requires isn't item-for-item the same personality, but rather the same evolving personality.

不，根据人格理论，个人认同感并不需要一个完全相同的人格，而是同样在进化的人格。

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And so it's an understandable ploy on Milton's part that he needs to vilify Shakespeare by identifying that great poet, his older contemporary, with Comus.

所以就弥尔顿而言，是一个可理解的事,他需要通过认同那伟大的诗句来贬低莎士比亚，用Comus来压倒比他年纪较大的同时代人。

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