自己要成为一个更好的倾听者，通过提出问题或请求，让他人来分享自己的经历或想法，从而给其他人一些参与对话的机会。

Be a better listener yourself, and give others opportunities to participate in the conversation by inviting them with questions or requests to share their own experiences or thoughts.

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这个列表通常会比用户真正期望的要大，所以现在我给用户一个机会来选择那些他所感兴趣的唱片。

This is usually a list bigger than what the user really wants, so now I give the user a chance to select only the albums of interest.

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如果你修剪的每一个院子都有一个树墩要清除，你可能会发现，你的机会不仅仅是下一个需要割草的院子，而是独一无二的砍树桩的生意。

If every yard you mow has a tree stump that needs to be removed, you may discover that rather than just being one more yard service, you have a unique opportunity in stump removal.

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Obviously, the amounts that are in cigarettes are not enough that people are dropping dead of cyanide poisoning, but still it's not a good idea you definitely want to minimize your exposure.

显然，香烟中的氰化物含量不足,以使人中毒而死，但这毕竟不是一个好主意,你绝对会想要将接触氰化物的机会减到最少。

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