但是我们都曾经经历过这种事情的两方面：获取了我们并不会采纳的建议；被请求给别人建议，却被忽视。

But we have all been on both sides of this; getting advice that we don't take and being asked for advice that others ignore.

youdao

看，当别人的坏习惯被指出来之后，你很难做到去忽视它。 但是如果你真的很爱他们，坏习惯真的很容易的去原谅。

You see, when someone's bad habits are pointed out to you, it's hard to igonre them. but if you love them enough, those bad habits are easy to forgive.

youdao

我还发现当别人否定或忽视了我的感受，我往往会唠叨(例如，抱怨)个不停，因为感到自己的话没有被听见。

I've found, too, that when other people deny or ignore my feelings, I tend to keep repeating myself (i. e., whining), because I don't feel heard.

youdao