自私一点，多为自己着想一点。

Be a bit selfish, think of yourself a bit more.

youdao

其次，如果你想自私一点来看待这个问题(其实没必要)，帮助别人获得成功从长远看其实是在帮助你自己。

But second, if you want to look at things in more of a selfish way (and you don't have to, at all), making others successful actually helps you in the long run.

youdao

我知道，作为女人，我们有时候不好意思提要求，但是在人生的某个阶段，你就是得自私一点，而这个阶段就是现在（如果它能帮助你的孩子健康成长，这样做就算不上自私）。

I know as women we can sometimes hesitate to ask, but if there's one time in your life you should be selfish, it's now (and after all, it's not selfish if it's helping your baby thrive).

youdao