能够自我主宰和自我掌控。
你可以否认任何令你感到受挫或者威胁自我掌控感的事物，例如
You can be in denial about anything that makes you feel vulnerable or threatens your sense of control, such as
不要把你对于自我掌控的需要误当作你明显控制他人的能力。
Don't mistake your need for self-mastery and control for your obvious ability to control others.
应用推荐