如果你是一个回避型的人，你需要练习信赖别人，给别人一个机会，而不是吹毛求疵，把别人推得远远的。

If you're an avoider, you need to practise relying on people, giving them a chance instead of finding fault and pulling away.

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当她是一个大学生的时候，她的体重超过90公斤，这给了别人更多嘲笑她的机会。

When she was a university student, her weight was over 90 kilograms, which gave other people more chances to laugh at her.

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我想我可能会把钱捐献出去给别人一个拯救自己的机会，而不是给穷孩子买玩具。

I figured I might as well donate to someone to give them an opportunity to support them self, rather than buy poor children toys.

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