如果放弃一件东西让你有自我牺牲或是严苛的责任意识的感受，这就会使你一直想要回它，这就想法不能实现就会给你造成困扰。

If you were to give it up in a mood of self-sacrifice or out of a stern sense of duty, you would continue to want it back, and that unsatisfied want would make trouble for you.

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同时也会给你造成情绪上的困扰和身体上的痛苦。

The disease also inflicts emotional and physical pain.

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