波西格的机修工是愚蠢的,因为的他无法掌控他的社会角色,这个角色需要将维修机器与积极关怀他人联系在一起。
Pirsig's mechanic is idiotic because he fails to grasp his public role, which entails, or should, a relation of active concern to others, and to the machine. He is not involved.
积极的倾听需要共感,肯定和在没有掌控交谈时处理和回应的能力。
Active listening requires empathy, affirmation and the ability to process and respond without taking over a conversation.
对于生活,我们无法掌控,但不停地追求目标可以让我们变得积极,为成功打下基础。
We can't control everything about our lives, but working towards a goal gives us something positive to focus on and lays the foundation for future success.
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