我想，如果认为女人们无法辨别一个看上去胖胖的男人的优点，那是破坏女人的名声。
I think it's a discredit to women to suggest they wouldn't be able to recognize that a guy is kind and worthwhile even though he might be a little chubby.
没错，逗她开心。 很多调查都显示，幽默感是女人最看重的男人优点之一。
Yes, make her laugh; in many surveys women list a man’ssense of humor as one of the topthings that are important to them.
我们都知道，男人和女人都会在一开始展示并夸大他们的“优点”，轻描淡写或隐藏弱点。
As we all know, men and women BOTH show off and exaggerate their "good sides" while downplaying and hiding their negative traits at first.
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