取而代之他开始用自己的方式做他想要做的。

Instead he began to do the things he wanted to do, in his own way.

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也许，你会问自己，我是这样做的，用更适合女性的方式去谈判意味着我们屈服于刻板印象还是由结果来评判我们的方式。

You may be asking yourself, as I did, whether negotiating in ways more favorable for women means that we're just succumbing to stereotypes - or whether the ends justify the means.

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如果你的配偶依然努力做这些，那么这是他们用自己的方式告诉你，没有人会让他们如此想与之共度的了。

If your spouse still makes an effort to do this - it's their way of telling you, there's no one they'd rather be with.

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