经由过程给以消极鞘需的空间和关注，你现实上是在消解其力量。

You are actually taking away the power of the emotion by giving it the space and attention it needs.

youdao

对不是很合适或者不是必需的要求有勇气去说“不”现实上是你最有效的时间管理东西。

Having the courage to say "no" to requests that are inappropriate or unnecessary could be your most effective time management tool!

youdao

原则上我不反对必修课程，但是我认为把外语列为必修课是不现实的。

I'm not opposed to a core curriculum in principle, but I think requiring a foreign language is unrealistic.

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So poor Lily is also an orphan, at least in the emotional sense, if not in actual reality. Her father, of course, had run off from her mother right after she had gotten pregnant, and then I suppose he came back.

可怜的莉莉也是个孤儿，至少从感情的角度上看是,如果你认为在现实情况不是，她的父亲，当然，在她母亲怀孕后,就开溜了，然后我猜测他又回来了。

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