这种不满如果没导致离婚，这时的夫妻双方都应该好好反省一下自己的婚姻，设身处地为对方的前程思量思量。

If the discontent doesn't lead to a divorce, it will, or should, call for a serious review of the marriage and of each partner's aspirations in their Catch-30 condition.

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From the mere fact that you can't picture from the inside what it's like to be dead, it doesn't follow that nobody believes they're going to die.

仅从无法设身处地想象,死亡的感觉，不代表没人会相信自己会死。

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From the mere fact that they can't picture from the inside what it's like to have fainted and not yet woken up, it doesn't mean that nobody believes that they ever faint.

仅从无法设身处地,想象昏倒的感受，不代表没人相信自己会昏倒。

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