一旦你意识到没有人能带走真实的你或者改变你，那么你将按照自己的想法去生活，你与他们的关系将更加的完满。
Once you realize no one can take who you are or change who you are, then you will relax into your rhythm and your relationships will be more fulfilling.
也许，我们不得不停下来，因为没有足够的钱去迈出下一步，也或者我们害怕离开固有的安全保障，害怕因改变自己的事业而失去现有的稳定工作——对未知的一种恐惧。
Maybe they "stop" because there isn't enough money to take the next step, or they are afraid to leave the certain safety and security of their current job to change careers - the fear of the unknown.
所以要他接受自己的生活已经局部、很可能永久的改变，需要花费时日去适应，我只能说他还没有习惯于此。
So accepting that that part of his life has changed, probably forever, has taken some getting used to, and I'd say he's still not used to it.
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