但是除非你知道法则并且你自己对它们练习了足够多以至于你对它们非常熟悉，否则你不能给予某人积极的期望。

But you can't give someone positive expectation until you know the Laws and have practiced them yourself enough so that they are very familiar.

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如果你把某人当成完完全全的陌生人，你的行为就不会表现出对她有点熟悉或稍稍了解，但没有深交的样子。

If you are acting like someone is a perfect stranger, you are not acting as if she might be a little familiar, or as if you might know her a bit, but not very well.

youdao