到此为止，你一定要明确知道你的配偶怎么帮助你解决这些问题，强调他的帮助对你有多大的意义。
From there, be specific about how your partner can help you resolve these problems and emphasize how much his or her help would mean to you.
记住，你不一定要等到有问题要解决时才考虑问题和方案。
Remember, you don't have a problem to solve until you've got two concerns on the table.
如果你有问题，一定要尽快解决。
If you have a problem you have to address it as soon as possible.
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