她这样做不是为了把你逼疯；更确切地说，她逐渐了解到自己的欲望和你的不同，有时这些差别是重要的，有时却不是。

She is not doing this to drive you crazy; rather, she is learning that her desires and yours can differ, and that sometimes those differences are important and sometimes they are not.

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胡克有一种沮丧的欲望，想发表他的临终遗言，唯恐马上就没有时间了。

Hook felt a gloomy desire to make his dying speech, lest presently there should be no time for it.

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So, what happens in the course of development is, you're just trying to make your way through the world and satisfy your desires, but sometimes you're punished for them.

因此，在成长过程中，你试图在现实中满足本我的要求,满足自己的欲望，但有时也会因此而受到惩罚。

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