这是一个转变的故事，这种变化已经在发生，但是如果你敞开胸怀并且加入进来会使这种转变发生的更快。

This is a story of transformation. It is change that is already taking place, and change that can accelerate if you'll just open your heart and join in....

youdao

如果别人喜欢你，那么他们在与你相处时会感觉自在舒适。他们会关注你的一举一动，而且会向你敞开胸怀。

If people like you, they feel natural and comfortable around you. They will give you their attention and happily open up for you.

youdao

关在在于，你得敞开胸怀，愿意去往任何你不曾预想过的地方。

And there's the rub: you have to open your mind to going places you never expected to go.

youdao

Or, for that matter, if you've got some quick reactions or thoughts or responses to the arguments that I'm laying out and you want to share them with the class as a whole, then very much I want to invite you to do this.

或者，关于那一点，如果你很快有回应,以及关于那个争论的想法或者反应,那么我会敞开胸怀,如果你想和全班同学分享这个，我会非常想邀请你这样做的。

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