如果你没有感觉到你是爱自己的，或者拥有健康的自尊，是采取行动改变这一现状的时候了。

If you don't feel like you love yourself or have healthy self esteem, it's time to take steps to change that.

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但是在你慢慢了解了斯内普的过去，知道他因为对莉莉的爱和莉莉的死真的改变自己之后，甚至杀了邓布利多也是听邓布利多的命令而行，你会为他的精神而感动。

But then you discovered more about Snape's past and learned that he had truly been transformed by his love for Lily and her death. He had even been ordered to kill Dumbledore, by Dumbledore himself.

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不从自己的优点中获得爱的价值，却傻傻地盲目改变自己，改变最宝贵的生活阅历，只为了能迎合他人的期望和看法。

We don't feel worthy of love on our own merits, so we morph ourselves - our precious lives - to conform to others' expectations instead.

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