假设你想找到一种方式能改变并超越自我，于是你就去观察别人的一举一动或者留意周围环境的变化，不敢贸然行动，这样做的话你一定得不到改变，大失所望。
If you're looking for something to change beyond yourself, if you depend on the behavior of others, or a change in your environment before you act, you're in for disappointment.
他甚至觉得，改变自己的最快方式，就是坦然嘲笑自己的愚笨——这样，你就能对过往云烟轻松释然，迅速行动起来，直面变化。
He realized the fastest way to change is to laugh at your own folly-then you can let go and quickly move on.
如果你不喜欢别人对待你的方式，只有改变自己行为这一个行动路线，因为你不能改变别人。
And if you don't like the way you're treated, there's only one course of action-to change your own behavior, because you can't change anyone else's.
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