伤害你所爱的人只需三言两语，但是却需要许多年去抚平创伤。

they love,and it can take many years to heal them.

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费勒说：“我想很小的时候感情上受到了伤害，即使长大后你可以抚平伤口，刺骨的伤痛却早已留下，那是你永远都无法抹去的。”

"I think that emotional marks are made early on," Ferrer said. "Even if you can rationalize them as you grow up, they still leave that dank sadness you can never truly shake."

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在德国人能够反思自己施于他人的伤害之前，似乎首先必须抚平自己的伤痛。

Before they could think about what they had done to others, it seems, Germans had first to tend their own wounds.

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