当李林的母亲你发现他儿子与其女友的所作所为后将他们送到了警局。 当被问及他们是否想这些孩子时，他们说，“我们不想抚养他们，我们只想卖掉他们换点钱。”

When asked if they missed their children, the parents answered, "We don’t want to raise them, we just want to sell them for some money.

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“这是当你想要孩子时，你会做的事，这样你们能一起抚养他们长大，”她回答说。

"It's what you do if you want to have children so you stay together to bring them up," she said.

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你觉得外国人知道如何抚养我的孩子吗？

Do you think the foreigners know how to hold my baby?

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So, you would expect a child who just grew up with a mother or just grew up to be a father--with a father to be in some sense psychologically damaged by that, failing to go through the normal psychosexual stages.

你会看到由单身母亲抚养长大的孩子,或由单身父亲抚养长大的孩子,在某种意义上,会因此而形成心理创伤，从而无法正常地经历所有的性心理阶段。

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