那么，既然一个自恋者对他自己如此之爱，他又何苦要去伤害自己、把自己的兴趣搁置一边，而强把你当做他的兴趣所在呢？

So, if a narcissist loves himself so much, why would he do anything to hurt himself and put his interests in danger, considering that you are his interest?

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那么，你就要安排计划一些他们有兴趣的活动，这样他们就不会只把你当做传统意义的、一般的父母，而是觉得自己的父母很酷。

You may have to plan activities which you know interests them so they don't just see you as their parent, but as a cool parent.

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