韦德说，“你可能会感觉和对方交融在一起，以致你失去自我的界限，你无法分清彼此或你们在做着什么。”
‘It might be a feeling of being so merged with your partner you lose your ego boundaries, so you can’t determine who is doing what to whom,’ says Wade.
真正的错位感，真正的失去外在与内在的熟悉坐标，并不有多光荣或潇洒。它是自我内在的深层的巨变。
Real dislocation, the loss of all familiar external and internal parameters, is not glamorous or cool. It is an upheaval in the deep material of the self.
但也让他们付出了代价，那就是失去了用其他风格或形式表现自我的自由。
However, they paid for it by giving up the freedom to express themselves with other styles or forms.
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