当时我的父亲和我犯了相同的错误，就是否认了母亲的存在和情感的力量是能够划等号的这个现实。

At the time, my father and I were under the misguided impression that denying the reality of the situation in my mother's presence was synonymous with emotional strength.

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And the driving of the id, the forces of the id and the forces of the superego, are unconscious in that we cannot access them.

本我的驱力，本我和超我的力量，都存在于我们无法觉察的无意识之中。

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