像“走自己的路”，“靠自己的双脚站立”，或者当我面对某些行为招致的后果时，我母亲最喜欢说的一句话：“既然你已经铺好了床，就躺在上面吧。”

"Make your own way", " Stand on your own two feet" or my mother's favorite remark when I was face-to-face with consequences of some action: "Now that you've made your bed, lie on it."

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你是在安慰自己或者安慰我脸上写满的担心和绝望么？

Are you comforting yourself or comforting the fears and hopelessness that was written all over my face?

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或者你就干脆问问自己：为什么我要相信这个呢？

Or simply ask yourself: Why should I not believe this?

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And when somebody else then attacks them, say, "Look, I think that what John was saying was a good point and here's how I think he should have defended his position," or what have you.

并且当其他人攻击他们时，你说听着我觉得约翰说的是个好点子,和这是我认为他应该怎样维护自己的立场“,或者你有什么。

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If you need help, ask John, myself, or the TAs. That's what we're here for.

如果你需要帮助，请教John，我自己，或者助教们，那是我们存在的理由。

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