尽管我知道，自己实际上并不愿意别人在一种未经协商、单方面同意的情况下拥有这种权力，但是认识到自己的这种感觉让我必须面对两个不爽的问题。

Realizing that this is so, even though I know I wouldn't actually want someone else to have such a right in an unnegotiated, nonconsensual situation, I'm left with two rather uncomfortable questions.

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如果对于这个问题的回答是，当我专注我的注意力于其上时它不会使我感觉良好，那么我们会说，不管是不是真的，它都不会为你服务。

And if the answer to the question is, it doesn't make me feel very good when I focus upon it, then we would say, true or not, it does not serve you.

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这位女士由于我的问题感到很难过，我感觉到犯了一个大错。 指判断、计算或行为上的错误，也指智力或道义上的错误。

I think that I committed a blunder in asking her because she seemed very upset by my question.

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