你说的那种生活对我一点也不合适。

Such a life as you describe would not suit me at all.

youdao

除非他们对你的生活具有破坏性，我的建议不是完全隔绝他们，而是腾出时间让自己去尝试。

My suggestion isn't to cut them off entirely (unless they are completely destructive to your life), but to free up time and start venturing out on your own.

youdao

最棒的是生活中的成功(我不是指有钱)会让你对女性充满吸引力，这将极大的提高你的自信。

What is best is that being successful in life (and I don't mean being rich) will make you doubly attractive to women, and that will raise your confidence even more.

youdao