我们称之为理想的乌托邦，一个现实中不存在的地方。

We call ideal as a utopian, a place where reality does not exist.

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当这个目标帮助自己的同时也能帮助其他人时，我们称之为理想。

When the goal is to help others as well as oneself, we call that idealism.

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我们生活在一个我称之为“外向理想型”的价值体系中——一个无处不在的信念，即理想的自我是善于交际的，在聚光灯下感到舒适的。

We live with a value system that I call the Extrovert Ideal—the omnipresent belief that the ideal self is gregarious, and comfortable in the spotlight.

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We could call this the "fantastic valuable container theory" as opposed to the "modest valuable container theory."

我们可以称之为“理想价值容器理论“,它与“保守价值容器理论“形成对照“

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