看似神秘的“接纳预言”实则很简单：当我们认为自己受到其他人喜欢时，我们在他们面前就会表现得更加友善，结果对方也会相应地变得更喜欢我们。
The mystical-sounding 'acceptance prophecy' is simply this: when we think other people are going to like us, we behave more warmly towards them and consequently they like us more.
当我们认为自己不被他人喜欢时，就会表现得更加冷淡，这样一来，对方就更不喜欢我们了。
When we think other people aren't going to like us, we behave more coldly and they don't like us as much.
我们都曾有过与自己不太喜欢的人共事的经历，但出色的表现总能胜过一切。
We've all worked with people we weren't crazy about, at one time or another, but great performance trumps everything.
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